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    trampos123
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      Can anyone relate or explain to me whats going on? I have this obsession for ranking many preferences of mine.
      For example: “Do I prefer blonde or Brunette woman?” “During my teenage days, im sure i prefer blondes. But now, i like brunettes too. Do i like them less than blondes? Or do I like them in the exact same way nowadays?”
      “How much % I like blondes? How much % i like brunettes?”

      I get on this loop, i get trapped inside those questions, and never get to any conclusion or answer.
      So, i cant enjoy life normally. I can’t just look to a woman and stay relaxed anymore. Now i always get on loops of thoughts. This is not life!!!!

      And its not just about hair colors. Its about breast sizes preferences, furniture colors preferences, etc.
      Its always: “do I prefer X or Y? Or both equally? How can I know? How can i feel?”

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      Choking on flowers
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        I get what you mean 🙁 with ocd its like no matter what you feel like have to know 100% about everything. If you feel uncertain, it makes you feel awful and you go into a never-ending loop in trying to figure it out.

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        Forum Moderators

          Hello:

          Forum Moderators here: we’re sorry you’re going through a really difficult time now with your OCD related to ranking preferences and haven’t had many replies yet. Please don’t take this personally or ever think you’re alone. It may just be that forum users are taking time to consider how to reply.

          And please remember that you can also contact the OCD Action Help and Information Line to talk to or email someone who understands OCD.

          Our Helpline volunteers provide confidential and unbiased help, information and support for people with OCD (or who  think they may have OCD). Most volunteers have personal experience of OCD and all understand how it can impact your entire life. Contact our Helpline by:

          – phone: 0300 636 5478 (UK number).

          – email: support@ocdaction.org.uk

          You can also find out about support groups on our website. These offer a safe place where you can talk openly about OCD and support other people too. Our information about UK-based groups can be found here:

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          If you don’t live in the UK,  look for groups near you on the International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) website. Look in the section “Find Help” and then under “Listing Types”, choose “Support Groups”: https://iocdf.org/

          And please remember that you’re never alone – OCD Action is always here to help and support you.

          Best wishes,

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