My OCD is making me worry particularly about this

[jediavengerParticipant]

Hi. I have OCD and the intrusive thoughts I occasionally get can be very disgusting. One thing I’m constantly worried about lately is whether or not thinking 18 or 19 year olds are attractive is leaning towards it. I know its not technically that but it’s barely just above the age of consent. Like, for example, years ago I had a crush on Rey in Star Wars and thought about her often (I’m 22 now btw, I was teenager back then). She’s 19 in Force Awakens and 20 in Rise of Skywalker. But now it just feels weird and I’m not sure that if as the years go by and I get older, it will be more creepy to think that. I’m just not sure if I’m being rational about this because in the end, I don’t want to accidentally realise afterwards that it was wrong.

[johna2Participant]

That is attraction to young people. Not 19-20 year olds.

You don’t need to worry.

[Forum Moderators]

Forum Moderators here:

Thanks for posting on the forums and we’re sorry you haven’t had many replies yet, but please don’t think you’re ever alone.

If you want to talk to someone who understands, you can also contact the OCD Action Helpline – our Helpline volunteers provide confidential information and support for people with OCD (and anyone who thinks they may have OCD). Most volunteers have personal experience of OCD; all understand how it can impact your entire life.

Contact our Helpline by:

• phone: 0300 636 5478
• email: support@ocdaction.org.uk

You can also find out about support groups on our website. These offer a safe place where you can talk openly about OCD and support other people too. Our information about UK-based groups can be found here:

• Local independent support groups: https://ocdaction.org.uk/i-need-support/local-support/
• OCD Action Skype/Phone/Zoom support groups: https://ocdaction.org.uk/i-need-support/ocd-action-skype-phone-zoom-support-groups/

If you don’t live in the UK, you can look for groups near you on the International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) website. Look in the section “Find Help” and then under “Listing Types”, choose “Support Groups”: https://iocdf.org/

And please remember that you’re never alone – OCD Action is here to help and support you.

Best wishes,

[OCDandmeParticipant]

But she’s 30 and you’re 22. I don’t get it.

[Forum Moderators]

Hi:

Forum Moderators here – just checking in, as it’s been a while since we replied to your topic.

We want to be sure you know that, in addition to contacting the OCD Action Helpline and Email Service, you can visit our website’s Resources page: https://ocdaction.org.uk/resources/

You’ll find lots of helpful web-based resources on topics such as:

• An introduction to OCD
• Assessment and Diagnosis
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• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with Exposure and Response Prevention
• Funding specialist treatment
• Getting a Yes from the NHS
• Good Quality CBT with ERP
• I am a parent of a young child
• Making the Most of Therapy
• Medication for OCD
• Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
• Preparing for a GP Appointment
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• Student Space: Management and Keeping Well
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• What to Look for in a Therapist
• Your Journey through the NHS

We hope you find these resources useful!

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