Reply To: TOCD or gender Dysphoria… Everyone says I am wrong! ***TRIGGERS***

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Hi there, I guess the biggest battle for anyone, is knowing how to accept the way they are, right now… The way we are…  We are all different… Just as well really… If everyone was the same life would be incredibly boring…The world would be a lot of people walking around, with little or no purpose…  I don’t know what your situation is, but simply find a way of accepting the situation, without worrying too much about it, and simply wait and see… Listen to favourite music, while listening to positive affirmations… There are some good ones on youtube. Literally, you don’t have to decide right now… Just wait and see how things pan out…  I believe we are all here for a reason, maybe to live out a certain lifestyle, so we can in turn be there for others around us…  The important thing, is to be your own best friend… Just as you would, a friend or colleague who describes the way you see life at the mo… Acceptance is not easy, but I would say that it is easier than any other way…

I hope this helps you to eventually make sense of things…

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