That’s the part I find hard to tolerate as he ends up not speaking to me or using it against me in the sense that it’s always on his mind because I haven’t answered him. If I end up snapping and saying I don’t care because I don’t need to remember everything about my past he tells me “it’s matters to me and I need help with understanding this”. I just wish it was easy not to answer him but no matter what I do there’s no easy outcome. If I don’t answer him he won’t speak to me properly. If I do answer him I’m feeling deflated and wondering when he will question me again
