Hi there. It sure is scary isn’t it?
The only way is to ‘Let go, and Let God’, Whatever you perceive him to be.
Let go, and allow your cat to look after him/herself. They are far more resilient to the world than any of us human beings.
When out on their own, other peoples cats go to some pretty amazing places, across broken glass and fencing, and yet they are always okay. Well they are ,Aren’t they?
So, for one hour to start with, hand the responsibility over to your cat him/herself. Feel the stress go out of your mind for just an hour. It’s amazing… Cats are amazing, Aren’t they? They don’t worry… They can teach us a lot about living… They just lay about, and, As long as we provide them food and water, They love us unconditionally.
Vets visits are incredibly rare, and they are very independent. It wouldn’t surprise me if yours visits other people’s homes when out, Then come mischievously home. Cats are brill…
I sure wish my tenancy agreement would allow me to have one at my home!
One last thing for the mo… Try stretching that hour to longer periods… That will be blessed freedom…
Welcome
Wannabe