Reply To: Can anyone relate to avoidance with a partner

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I did exactly the same in the early stages and nothing. I don’t know if he ever read it but I now know in that moment for him he wouldn’t be able to take it in anyway. With the odd emails back and forth he never commented or disagreed with anything I said his last text which I didn’t respond to was about him dropping my things off and he said so you don’t need to message me again. So I didn’t. A few days later he randomly blocked that contact too even though I hadn’t contacted him again.

 

you do need to move on though. We don’t know if they will or won’t come back, and mental health or not it’s no excuse to hurt someone and if he realises he will take the course that he needs to, to be healthier. Moving on doesn’t mean dating. It just means you becoming better and healthier without him. If he does come back, and yous till want him, bonus. If not then you’ve healed x