Hiya, because we belittle ourselves so much, maybe we give negative things more importance than they deserve. I don’t honestly think any parent is gonna be perfect, mine certainly weren’t, but by going through that, I figured out how not to be a bad Dad. We all end up learning by trial and error, and not just for childcare. We are all beautifully Human and fallible. We all have strengths and weaknesses, that actually determine our strengths, which in an ideal society, are entwineable. Just like individual specialities that make up a good  team. None of us is trained in, or perfect at everything, or most of us would be redundant. It is a good idea not to try and look into life quite so deeply…