Reply To: Real event OCD guilt – confession will ruin my relationship
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Hiya, and welcome… I could be way off here but… Is it really so important that he knows about the past? In truth, I believe that everyone has a past… It is all from a time gone by, and doesn’t represent the person you are now… When we meet someone special, they don’t need to know our life story… They need to know who we are now, who we’ve become, through whatever happened to be there at the time… I guess we are all basically a product of our growing up, but that can be a good thing… As grownups we understand more about what we want out of life…
Maybe it just needs writing down on a totally encrypted hard drive, so you get it out of your system, but then just leave it all behind. None of us is the same person we were before the pandemic struck… We are yet to find out what our new ‘normal’ will be…