Why would I feel nervous or depressed about same sex attractions. Is it because society tells us we can't or have we been programmed. Once I questioned it with a thought that's when I thought about it and discovered I was gay
What do you guys think outsiders or real LGBT people think of us "straight" people who are worried we are gay and obesse every sec of the day. Im embarrassed and ashamed that I have to go through this dumb obession. Ive become ashamed and feel dread telling people that I have a fear of turning gay. I hope one day I look back and realize how stupid and time wasting this period of my life was. I still "believe" I'm attracted to men but not happy about it.
These are the steps and advice I would give anyone looking to overcome these fears of becoming/turning gay. Here you go are you ready...
- STOP ALL INTERNET RESEARCHING, this includes forums,empty closets,Reddit, researching finger lengths ect. Stay away from the internet and stop comparing your story to a another person's story.
I don't think coming out publicly would lift any burden you have already. That guy was probably unhappy in his relationship and felt like he wanted to live the gay life instead. It was his choice , why are you relating your story to his? That's part of your worries
How were you in denial and still enjoying sex with your girlfriend? Listen, you don't know if your gay or not. I don't either, I live with uncertainity everyday...why? Because before this thought triggered me I never knew I was truly gay? I never treated myself or check before this.