Oleander

Member since: 31 Mar 2017 (2 years 6 months)
Last active: 9 months 3 weeks ago

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  • November 7 2018 - 5:10pm
    I'm not explaining myself well. You shouldn't do anything to make his anxiety worse, but it's also not your responsibility to make it better by carrying out his compulsions.
  • November 7 2018 - 4:51pm
    "The thing there though is that it is adviseable to only ask once and no more, otherwise it is reassurance seeking, and self-defeating. Just once is seeking information." Very important distinction, and one we'd all do well to keep in mind. Thanks mate.
  • October 18 2018 - 11:45pm
    I think it is often better to accomplish small things than to push too hard too fast and then crash and burn. Keep accomplishing "very little", but do it regularly so that it gets easier.
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