Hi.I've been with my girl for 3 years. In the beginning it was not intended to be that serious at all. From none of us. But it got. But later she also had to tell me that she came from a divorce, and had children. For me that was a bit of a chock. She also has OCD and ROCD.But we managed to hold on. But we couldn't come to the point where we moved together. Mostly because of me. I was new in this situation, and in the beginning not mature enough. But I've got older, and familiarized by the situation.