Reply To: I am a not a good man

[johna2Participant]

If this woman has a thing for you and you fancy her, then that is just a fact over which you have no control. Dont be hard on yourself. We are all horny little animals at the end of the day. But we are also rational and pragmatic, and we know, hopefully, what is in our best interests and those of other people. Dont bash yourself for thoughts, and don’t worry that you will do stuff you really don’t want to do.

Your wife sounds quite understanding. I think you are lucky to have a good woman. I’d focus on her if I were you. You know that the “other woman” would probably screw up your life. Is it worth it?