Worried about attraction

8 April 2019 - 13:42

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So I had POCD there is no doubt and I no longer worry about that. But I wanna know if this is normal: I am 18 have normal attraction to mature looking women but attraction is stronger towards girls younger than me that have "babylike" features, in a way that you can see she is not a kid but she reminds you of one, eg. little baby hands, round face, small etc. and I find that adorable and like it, but not in a sexual way. I don't find these characteristics attractive in real kids nor do I have any attraction to them. Is this wrong or I am worried about nothing?

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Hi there, and welcome to the forums. This sounds similar to people stopping in the street to look into prams at new babies. They're just so cute. Parents watch their children develop into adulthood. Amazed at the stuff they can do. Grandparents watch as their grandchildren demonstrate skills they have learnt at school. All this is perfectly normal  isn't it? I sure hope so. It's not easy is it? .

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I know it's late but definitely not! My attraction to guys are normally baby faces as well. But the moment i realise there age is more than 1 year younger than me I feel sick and I don't go or fantasize about them. I guess this means I'm not a p (I hope). Plus this is alot of people's preference. Are all guys and girls with baby faces doomed to be alone? I have a baby face so i hope this is why im attracted to guys with baby faces. With you though, men are normally attracted to women and men with baby faces, this has been studied numerous times. Why do you think yellow fever where men go after Asian women exist?

Also the guys I was attracted to I never imagined or compared them to kids until my possible pocd started so it is possible that it doesnt mean you're a p at all. Get better soon!

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Thank you, feeling better these days. It is just that I am a bit childish as well so i probably look for the same type of girl. Also, PleaseHelp1998 you don't sound like a p at all. OCD has a way of twisting your thoughts and feelings so they feel real to you. The fact that you never comared them to kids before to me is a 100% proof of OCD. Stay strong my friend!

30 April 2019 - 12:13

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Anyone else have any opinions?

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